Serve every media file privately at /media/<id>

There is no public media any more. `/media/public/<id>` served a media
row with no session at all, so anyone with the id could read a file.
The public/private split is gone: the path is `/media/<id>` (and
`/media/<id>/thumbnail`), every request is signed in first, and
`grabUserMedia` decides whether the user may see it: their own upload,
a bot's or workspace's picture or file they reach, or a file on a task
they reach. Anything else is a 404 before a path is built.

The `media.is_private` column and the two per-user directories went
with it: uploads live in `media/<user_id>/` and there is nothing to
pick between. The files browser's media volume is now the viewer's
own folder whatever their role.

Bots also say which of the two things they mean. A `[file:ID]` ref is a
saved file and its chip opens the bytes; a folder is a new
`[folder:volume:owner:path]` ref (`src/utils/folder-ref.ts`) whose chip
opens the files browser there and downloads nothing. The old `[path:...]`
ref and the extension sniffing that guessed file from folder are gone,
so `import_file` names the folder holding a file it copied rather than
the file itself.

The prompts say what the Assistant got wrong: list before importing or
saving, one copy per artifact, never split a file into parts unless
asked, never claim the store is empty without a fresh list, and never
invent a size cap. A re-import now says the path already existed
instead of silently overwriting and reporting a fresh copy.

src/types/index.ts

@@ -717,7 +717,7 @@ export type PublicBotFile = {
     ingest_error?: string;
     created_at: number;
     /**
-     * Where the bytes are served (`/media/private/<media id>`).
+     * Where the bytes are served (`/media/<media id>`, private).
      */
     url: string;
 };
@@ -1315,7 +1315,6 @@ export type ApiReqParams<
     media_paradigm?: MediaParadigmType;
     media_type?: (typeof MediaTypes)[number]["value"];
     media_name?: string;
-    is_media_private?: boolean;
 
     is_media_primary?: boolean;
     reauth?: boolean;